I need to think about this designation before making a decision which may make me an Eeyore.
Whatever I am, although a firstborn, I know I will learn a great deal from reading these thoughtful, wise and valuable words of Prof. Sanderson every week. Susie Wilson
I am definitely a Tigger! Definitely a glass half full person. However my daughter called me a toxic optimist and I was floored that there was such a thing. Now, instead of rushing to the “you can do it” cheerleading, I listen to better understand where the feelings are coming from and then my daughter (and also my employees) are more apt to move forward in a positive way.
This is such a great point, Donna! People see the world in a particular way - and understanding that our own way isn't the only way is so important. I have the reverse problem with my daughter - who is much more optimistic and doesn't always appreciate my doom and gloom predictions!
Donna, I am like you a Tigger but your daughter’s comment has given me pause to think. I love your approach and will be mindful of using it as I think it’s very considerate and thoughtful way to approach people. Thanks for sharing!
I can relate to Eeyore.. even saying things like "Thanks for noticing me Pooh" at times in my life. I am the youngest of 4 children, which may give some clarity to that. But I can also be a Tigger, for example going on a solo trip to New Zealand or building my own greenhouse (anything I put my mind to, I can do). I think that putting myself in a box (by labeling myself) makes me believe that I cannot change.
I think I repurpose and reconstruct now. I battled anxiety and my mind for many years. Not that it doesn’t arise now but it’s manageable.
I find that I can take an issue or situation and decide to find the silver lining or the opportunity.
However, oddly or maybe not because I think the science backs it up. When I chose and convinced myself to no longer fear death and that “time was not running out” I felt peace.
I cant learn it all, I cant do it all. But all that I can do and learn I can enjoy, appreciate and show gratitude.
Congratulations on making this shift (and achieving peace) - that's a perfect illustration of how change can happen - exactly as the science now shows!
Definitely a Tigger who tries to cheer on the Eeyore’s in my life.
We need those Tiggers - I'm married to one!
Opposites do attract 😊
I need to think about this designation before making a decision which may make me an Eeyore.
Whatever I am, although a firstborn, I know I will learn a great deal from reading these thoughtful, wise and valuable words of Prof. Sanderson every week. Susie Wilson
I could have guessed that you are a firstborn! Glad to share that in common with you (like our birthday number)!
I am definitely a Tigger! Definitely a glass half full person. However my daughter called me a toxic optimist and I was floored that there was such a thing. Now, instead of rushing to the “you can do it” cheerleading, I listen to better understand where the feelings are coming from and then my daughter (and also my employees) are more apt to move forward in a positive way.
This is such a great point, Donna! People see the world in a particular way - and understanding that our own way isn't the only way is so important. I have the reverse problem with my daughter - who is much more optimistic and doesn't always appreciate my doom and gloom predictions!
I love that we are all a little different 😊 even when it drives me crazy 🤪
Family often finds some traits to be more strong than others. I often get comments like “ you think people can do anything” from family.
I do!!!!
Even as the world is being turned upside down. I have hope we will rectify our ways. What else is there?
Donna, I am like you a Tigger but your daughter’s comment has given me pause to think. I love your approach and will be mindful of using it as I think it’s very considerate and thoughtful way to approach people. Thanks for sharing!
My daughter recently told me that I am the most introverted extrovert that she has ever met. I decided to take it as a compliment.
I love that - definitely a compliment!
I too am a firstborn woman and a constant worrier with a need of a plan for every eventuality. It is very tiring.
Psychologists call this "cognitive labor" ... and yes, it is exhausting!
Exhausting as hell!🤣🤣🤣
I can relate to Eeyore.. even saying things like "Thanks for noticing me Pooh" at times in my life. I am the youngest of 4 children, which may give some clarity to that. But I can also be a Tigger, for example going on a solo trip to New Zealand or building my own greenhouse (anything I put my mind to, I can do). I think that putting myself in a box (by labeling myself) makes me believe that I cannot change.
I love your flexibility - and I bet that stands you in good stead! Being able to adapt and challenge new things is a GREAT skill!
I think I repurpose and reconstruct now. I battled anxiety and my mind for many years. Not that it doesn’t arise now but it’s manageable.
I find that I can take an issue or situation and decide to find the silver lining or the opportunity.
However, oddly or maybe not because I think the science backs it up. When I chose and convinced myself to no longer fear death and that “time was not running out” I felt peace.
I cant learn it all, I cant do it all. But all that I can do and learn I can enjoy, appreciate and show gratitude.
Trying to be a Tigger more often.
Oh yea first born as well.
I'm sensing a pattern ...
Congratulations on making this shift (and achieving peace) - that's a perfect illustration of how change can happen - exactly as the science now shows!